Monday, July 9, 2012

Misquotes...

Almost every person termed successful has left behind trails of quotes... These quotes had immense value when used by right people at the right time... Now a days , I consider these quotes even frailer than the cheap punch dialogues used in tamil movies... Those who cannot complete a conversation without making a sing quote , need to reason as to why they actually do so. I feel its their insecurity in not being able to convince the listener with one's own articulation. Its even more a clearer depiction of one's weakness. The greatest gift that creation has ever bestowed upon the human race is the ability to converse with words in order for each other to understand vividly rather than other species who have common signals of sound for various necessity. We all talk day in and out , but have we ever reasoned as to what we talk and why we talk. Are we really communicating or are we just spilling out words that accumulate in our tummies rather than our senses of reasoning. No matter if you are a man or a woman , while you converse , keep in mind you are responsible for what you say , which means you are in command ... and if u r in command , u need to feel like a king , or even God ... Then why would you need someone else quotes , that were written for some other purpose at some other world of time... even if the quote matches your situation , why use what was already used and discarded many times... If you keep quoting , your listeners are going to start predicting every single sentence you talk to them... which in turn makes you a very boring person in the lot. It is that pinch of surprise , what is it that you are going to fill in next , that unknown articulation that keeps your listeners glued to you ... You needn't be a scientist , an orator or an author to make yourself a good pal amongst your friends. You needn't even be interesting. Your mere silence as a listener would be most appreciated than quoting others and having nothing out of yourself. My policy , Be genuine , be yourself , speak your mind (at the right time) , make others enjoy your presence , do not bug them with something they already know... no one is going to pay you for promoting their quotes... Be natural , be what you were born of and grew into...

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